Here we are, in the 21st
century. Everything moves at high speed. If it isn’t, it’s considered obsolete.
The internet, cars, jets, airplanes, even marriages must be all done quickly.
The coffee is prepared fast, the noodles make waiting for food to get done an
easier task. People have come to more easily fulfill their desires of instant gratification
more easily and quickly than ever. Time isn’t seen in a matter of decades,
years, days, weeks but in minutes and seconds now. Information zaps all in
front of us that we find it difficult to quantify and reproduce what we are
learning as before.
As the time race continues, most
people take the same sick perspective toward success in their lives. They
expect everything to work out quickly and easily without them breaking a single
bead of sweat. They want to get it now! Now is the thing, not later. But things
don’t work out like that. Everything has its own time and season. In the
movies, there could be overnight success, but in reality, there is no such
thing. One has to toil and wait for the ripe time to come.
Every single thing in this world
has its own time of success, including the human race. If a friend or colleague
is at the peak of his game (career,
marriage, academics, relationship, family) and you are not, even though you started out together, don’t fret or get
jealous (though its entirely human to do such), just get relaxed and convince
yourself that things will soon work out fine for you too. In every person there
is this voice that speaks to us. Funny enough the voice in question only
amplifies when things go wrong, like when your girlfriend rejects your long
awaiting marriage proposal, or when the promotion bypasses you even though you
know you deserve it. What you should do at such gloomy times is to pick
yourself back up, shrug those confident shoulders and change what that voice is
saying! Affirm yourself in positive ways by using positive words to make
yourself feel really good.
Success is a turn by turn event.
Don’t get freaked out if the tide isn’t flowing in your favour, very soon the
wind will blow and all will be well. Just keep working hard and doing what you
know how to do best and believe in. Keep putting commitment, dedication and
endurance and perseverance as top priority values for your life and am telling
you, as long as the sun will come up the next day, things will get better!
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